Stamford Domestic Violence Lawyer – Protecting Your Family, Your Rights, and Your Future

A domestic violence arrest in Stamford can turn your world upside down in a matter of hours. You may have been taken from your home, separated from your family, and told you cannot contact your spouse or partner. Suddenly, you are standing in court facing charges that carry serious legal, personal, and professional consequences.

I’m Allan F. Friedman, a Stamford criminal defense lawyer with more than three decades of experience defending clients in the Stamford Superior Court (GA 1). My goal is simple — to protect your rights, your reputation, and your future while helping you find the fastest path toward resolving your case and restoring your life.

In Connecticut, “domestic violence” (legally called family violence) doesn’t always involve physical harm. Police must make an arrest if they believe an incident occurred between family or household members — even when both sides insist it was a misunderstanding.

Common situations that lead to domestic-violence arrests in Stamford include:

• Heated arguments that get out of control
• Allegations made during a breakup or divorce
• Minor physical contact that the police treat as assault
• Misunderstandings after a 911 call from a neighbor

A single argument can result in criminal charges such as Disorderly Conduct (CGS 53a-182) or Assault 3rd Degree (CGS 53a-61) — both carrying potential jail time, probation, and protective orders that can tear families apart.

If you are arrested in Stamford for a family-violence offense, your case will be heard at the Stamford Superior Court (GA 1) at 123 Hoyt Street. Domestic-violence cases in Stamford follow a unique “next-day arraignment” procedure designed to move quickly.

Here’s what to expect:

• Next-Day Court Appearance – You will appear the next business day following your arrest. The judge may issue a protective order immediately, restricting or prohibiting contact with the alleged victim.
• Family Relations Interview – Before court, you’ll meet with the Family Relations Office, which assesses risk factors and recommends to the judge what level of protective order to issue.
• Protective Order Hearing – The judge reviews Family Relations’ recommendation and decides the terms of the order.
• Follow-Up Dates – The case is placed on the “Family Violence Docket,” with periodic court dates to monitor progress, counseling, or FVEP participation.

This process moves fast. Having an experienced Stamford domestic violence lawyer by your side from day one helps you avoid mistakes that could make things worse — such as violating a protective order or saying the wrong thing to Family Relations.

Judges in Stamford typically issue one of three types of criminal protective orders:

• Partial Order – Allows normal contact but forbids threats, harassment, or abuse.
• Full Order – No contact of any kind is permitted.
• Residential Stay-Away Order – You may contact the other person but must stay away from their home.

Protective orders take effect immediately, and any violation can result in a new felony charge (CGS 53a-223).

However, these orders can be modified. Once the situation calms down and Family Relations supports it, I can file a motion to modify to reduce or lift restrictions so you can return home or communicate with your family again.

Domestic-violence charges in Stamford can have lifelong effects. Even a misdemeanor conviction can:

• Appear on background checks
• Affect employment and housing
• Impact professional licensing or firearm rights
• Influence family-court proceedings or custody disputes

That’s why the top priority is avoiding a conviction altogether. For most first-time offenders, the Family Violence Education Program (FVEP) offers a powerful way to achieve that goal.

The FVEP is a Connecticut diversionary program designed to educate and rehabilitate rather than punish first-time domestic-violence offenders. If you qualify and successfully complete the program, your case will be dismissed, leaving you with no criminal record.

• You have no prior violent-crime convictions.
• The alleged incident did not involve serious physical injury.
• The prosecutor and judge approve your participation.

• Your attorney files a formal application.
• The judge refers the matter to Family Relations for review.
• If accepted, you’ll complete nine weekly counseling sessions.
• After completion and no new arrests, the court dismisses the case.

FVEP is not automatic — it takes persuasive advocacy to convince the court and prosecutor to approve it. I prepare every application carefully, highlighting your clean record, employment, family responsibilities, and commitment to change.

No two cases are alike, and the best defense depends on your facts. Common defense strategies I use in Stamford Superior Court include:

• Early intervention with Family Relations: I communicate with counselors and prosecutors before key hearings to demonstrate progress and stability.
• Challenging exaggerated claims: Many cases rely on emotional or inconsistent statements. I carefully review police reports and witness accounts for errors and contradictions.
• Presenting context and de-escalation: Many arrests result from misunderstandings or mutual arguments — not criminal intent.
• Avoiding violations of orders: I counsel clients on staying compliant with court restrictions to prevent new charges.
• Negotiating program eligibility: I push for FVEP admission or dismissal when prosecution evidence is weak or when rehabilitation outweighs punishment.

With over 30 years in local practice, I know how prosecutors and judges in Stamford handle these cases — and how to position you for the best outcome.

I’ve practiced criminal defense law in Stamford for more than three decades, representing hundreds of clients charged with family-violence offenses. I appear in GA 1 every week and know how the local system works — from the prosecutors and Family Relations officers to the court’s procedural flow.

Clients choose me because I:

• Provide personal attention — you deal directly with me, not an associate.
• Understand the sensitivity of family-violence cases.
• Focus on keeping families together and avoiding convictions.
• Offer flat-fee representation and free consultations.

My mission is to resolve your case with minimal disruption to your life while protecting your record and your family relationships.

You’ll appear in the Stamford Superior Court (GA 1) the next business day for arraignment. The judge will issue a protective order and schedule future dates.

The court is at 123 Hoyt Street, Stamford, CT 06905, near downtown.

No. In Connecticut, only the prosecutor can dismiss a domestic-violence case, even if the alleged victim wants the charges dropped.

It depends on the type of protective order. I can request modifications once Family Relations supports the change.

Typically nine weekly classes. After successful completion and compliance with the order, the case is dismissed.

No. Once dismissed, you can legally state that you were never convicted, and the record is sealed from public view.

No. Always consult with your attorney first. Anything you say can influence how your case is handled.

If you’ve been arrested for domestic violence in Stamford, don’t face the system alone. The decisions made in the next few days can affect your family, your record, and your future.

Call (203) 357-5555 or visit my contact page to schedule a free confidential consultation today. Let me put my 30 years of courtroom experience to work for you — protecting your family, your rights, and your future.